An Unflappable gift guide

Yes, it's mostly books

I’m so-so at gift giving. In general, I spend a lot more time thinking about ideas and planning activities than I do looking at stuff. I’m not a minimalist exactly, but the act of shopping isn’t a source of enjoyment for me. I like practical and durable things, items you buy once that last for a really long time.

My wife, on the other hand, is an elite-…